Saturday, February 11, 2006 commitment & compromise;
haven been blogging for a week. was way too busy... hahahaha. assignments !! actually i really enjoy doing it, just that we really dun hv much freaking time.
anyw, to today's topic. commitment & compromise everybody seems to be on this topic now a days, so i guess i'm writing abt it a bit today. firstly, diff ppl might hv diff views on it. and it gotta do w ur character and the person that u are attached to. if two person that are very bad tempered are tgt but are always compromising each other, and both of them are exhausted from it, it won't actually work out. its not just abt commitment, compromise or simply love, its abt COMMUNICATION. ql, is right, when u love someone doesn't mean that u have to compromise all the way, BUT, if there's enough communication between the both of them, there wun be such feel of "compromising all the way". u can love each other so much that u can compromise to a very very great extent, u can hv a lot of commitment to a relationship, but if there's no communication, u will feel very suffocated from it in the end.
real life example, my dad and mum. hah. no, i'm not going to say they hv enough communication and it works out or stuff liddat. neither am i going to say they hv no communication. yup, they hv, but little. i really can see a lot of compromise and commitment in them, especially my mum, when she's also a strong-headed one. oh well, their lack of communication always lead to quarrels though, which i'm really very very sick of it. which lead to, i'm kindda afraid of marriage. hah.
for now, i'm really glad to hv what i have now. truely speaking, i haven reach the stage of compromising... maybe because of my character??? of cos a relationship will hv their ups and downs but it is the seasoning that makes it tasty, agree??
haha, enough of that alr. meet up w zm today, den ser and terence joined us. den me, ser and terence went back to tpc, and dickson join us... hahaha.... wad happen when 2 women and 2 men are placed tgt?? no, its not market. its Antarctica. yar, lame. but its really fun lar.
and HAPPY 25TH BIRTHDAY TO MY DEAR !!! love ya lots. <3 <3 !!
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